Did you know that for what you want to manifest and materialize, it is necessary that you see what you want as normal?
When you see what you want as extraordinary, almost impossible, difficult to happen, you put your desires on a pedestal and you enter into a cognitive dissonance.
You’re in one vibration and your desires are in another.
For them to manifest in your life, you need to normalize them.
You need to realize that no matter how great your desires seem, or if you’ve never lived anything like that before, even then what you want is vulgar and normal.
And why? Because everything in this physical life that we live in is vulgar and normal.
When you think about everything you’ve manifested to this day in your life, when you were living it all became normal, right? You didn’t live in a state of 24/7 excitement and enthusiasm.
Maybe you lived like that in the early days, but then it became your new normal.
And it became normal because it’s normal.
So it is important to normalize your desires BEFORE they happen, so that you are in the same vibration as them.
In other words, get them off the pedestal and see them as ordinary and normal.
When that happens, you’re in the vibration of what you desire and by the Law of Attraction, you’ll draw everything easily to you.
Many people think that what they want is there far above them and that they have to rise to that vibration.
When in reality it’s the other way around. You have to take your desires off the pedestal and bring them down into worldly reality.
How this normal feels like
If you want to know exactly how this feels, think you already have a vacation booked on a paradise destination.
Of course, when you think about going, you’re excited. But you don’t feel enthusiastic enough to start fantasizing in such a way that you end up putting the trip on a pedestal and starting to become an unattainable dream.
And why? Because the trip is already booked. You know it’s gonna happen on that day.
This already knowing that will happen allows you to imagine and feel enthusiasm only to a certain extent. To the point where the desire for this journey is normal.
Even if it hasn’t happened yet, it’s already part of your reality.
Most people, when they think about manifesting their desires, they do not think that they are already booked to happen.
They have doubts, fears, limiting beliefs around them. All of this makes their desires grow beyond normal proportions and flee from its reality into fantasy land. And that’s where frustration and resentment comes in.
These people have difficulty realizing that what they want is already booked to happen in their lives and so it is NORMAL.
So you have to take the desires off the pedestal and take away their fantasy, and normalize them.
How to normalize your desires
The easiest way to normalize your desires is when you imagine yourself living them, you imagine from a vulgar point of view of everyday life.
For example, if you want to manifest your dream home, instead of imagining yourself going in there and being amazed, you’re going to imagine doing in that house exactly EVERYTHING you already do in the house you live in now.
Imagine you cooking lunch, the dog or the cat running around the house, your son calling you from the room, your husband or wife coming in from work parking the car, you taking a shower, watching your favorite show on TV, etc.
Normal, mundane things.
Because the truth is that after you manifest your dream home, after a while this will be your normal life.
What you do in the house where you live now, you’re gonna do the same. So it’s normal.
You’re not gonna turn into a colorful unicorn with wings like when we fantasize without measure or your life isn’t going to turn perfect every day.
It’ll be normal. Normal exactly the way you feel normal in your life right now.
Same thing about everything else you want to manifest.
If you want to manifest a lot of money, imagine spending, saving or investing that money the way you do with the money you have now.
If you want to manifest your dream car, imagine driving that car and going to the same places and doing the same things with it that you do now.
Imagine going to the supermarket and putting the groceries in the car. Imagine you washing the car.
Doing all this will normalize your desires and get them off the pedestal of fantasy land.
That means you’re going into a state of normalcy where manifesting your desires is like manifesting a cup of coffee at the nearest coffee shop. Ordinary and normal.
By doing that, you’re getting into the vibration of your desires. You’re removing resistance to its manifestation.
Surround yourself with people who are already living what you want
People who are already living what you want to manifest and live see it all as normal. It’s their day-to-day lives.
So surround yourself with those people.
Not to get jealous or angry or frustrated. But to realize how normal it is to live what you desire.
Does that mean you can’t feel excited anymore when you imagine living what you desire? Of course you can!
But only to a certain extent.
You have to stop before you go into the fantasy land and start feeling like what you want is unobtainable or very difficult to happen. It’s normal, remember?
You feel the same enthusiasm as you would for the holidays that are already booked. You feel the enthusiasm and then you let go.
Because when you manifest what you want, it’s gonna look normal to you.
What you want to manifest and live is already the normalcy of other people!
No one who lives in the kind of dream home you desire lives in a state of perpetual excitement and enthusiasm. They live in a normal way.
And the curious thing is that the nature of human beings is to always desire more and different.
So when you live in this dream house and it becomes normal, you’re going to desire other things.
That is why it is important to normalize your desires BEFORE they happen, so that you release the resistance and the manifestation occurs quickly.
Because in reality the whole physical world and everything we can manifest in this world is vulgar and normal. It just seems extraordinary to us because they’re things we’ve never lived before.
If we’ve never had a cup of coffee in our lives, and the chance to have one comes up, it’s going to feel extraordinary. Until we drink 50 cups of coffee and it becomes normal and vulgar.
And when it becomes normal and vulgar, the resistance to its manifestation disappears. Because if it’s normal and vulgar, it’s easy.
